Tuesday, May 11, 2010
Is It Possible?
Is it possible for one child/teen to ruin one's marriage? Is it possible that the child/teen can manipulate the marriage so much to where things actually fall apart between the couple? Why? Is it because I have been the main person in her life since four weeks old? Does she see my husband as a hinderance, is that what she creates these situations to where we fight all the time? My marriage is on the verge of being destroyed, we both are standing on the edge of the abyss, just waiting to be pushed off. The sad thing is that when Dani was in the state hospital for those 8 months, Mike and I were extremely happy, no fighting, we were communicating, I was getting healthy, Mike was taking care of himself while on the truck and now, life is shattered. My family has suggested a group home for her, she has turned into a liar and steals things and really can't be trusted. She yells at me...I am exhausted. Does anyone have any suggestions or ideas? This is one tired mom-cat who needs some help!